Conversations around conflict are difficult. Parties are often unable or unwilling to face conflict, or become deeply entrenched in their positions. These strategies only lead to escalation of the conflict and the possibility of collaborative resolution appears dim. Often leaving parties to assume that litigation is the only option.
Mediation is the alternative.
In a safe, neutral and confidential forum, parties with the help of the mediator explore their conflict on a deeper level. What are the underlying interests being expressed as positions? What are the real needs for each of the parties? How can those needs be met in ways that take into full account the parties’ reality?
As the mediator, I act as a neutral third-party supporting the conversation, and protecting the quality of the process. This allows for a process that is confidential, voluntary, and efficient, and diligently preserves the parties’ right to self-determination. The power to decide your future resides with you.
How Mediation works
Although each mediation is designed to meet the needs of the particular parties and circumstances, the general structure is the same.
Typically, the first session is an opportunity for me to explain more thoroughly the process in the context of the specific circumstances, and to answer any and all questions. This is an important first step allowing you to decide whether you think that mediation is right for you. If the parties agree to go forward, where appropriate, together we would outline some of the issues to be covered, determine what, if any, information gathering will be necessary, and discuss a tentative meeting schedule.
You will be provided with a Consent to Mediate, outlining the process and my role and an intake form. You will be asked to sign the consent and to complete the intake form in advance of the next session.
The Process
Generally, I recommend meeting every two weeks for about 90 minutes. Again, every case is different, but most cases can be resolved in a matter of months. Once an agreement is reached, I can memorialize that agreement in writing. While I am an attorney, as your mediator I serve as a neutral third-party, and do not represent either party. Each party is advised to consult a reviewing attorney before signing any binding agreement.
My fees are based on an hourly rate of $400, payable at the conclusion of each session. Additional services such as drafting an agreement, or communication with consultants or incidental copying and mailing costs are not included. These fees will be billed separately.
Virtual sessions are available eliminating geographic limits, and easing scheduling constraints.
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